Gaining

I like being fat, but I LOVE getting fatter.

A little of column a and a little of column b

Equally exciting but in different ways; they're not mutually exclusive.

This is a great thread. I have to go with being fat. Getting fat, I have found, at least to be a lot harder than I imagined.

I guess during the times I intentionally gained......the initial Fatness was what felt good and spurred my intentional stuffing and gaining.

Next there was the feeling of being so big and bloated when I was stuffing which was the addictive part. I wanted to see if I could surpass each stuffing to make myself bigger all the time by eating more and more. Eventually I needed to eat so much food all the time which was pretty arousing but the ultimate was seeing the new weught and how big my Gut could get. The thing that was pretty cool was I didn't have to wait to see my wife gain....I could do it to myself for immediate satisfaction and arousal.

Deliberately getting fat is super hot, but innately it can only last for so long. Being fat can be for always

It is a bit like the intensity of falling in love, versus the long term comfort of being in love.

At this point in my life, I'll take the long term. (And have some hot fantasies about the transitional stuff)

Both!!